I ‘worked’ through lunch, but really I was having an hour long free write. I stayed until my normal leaving time, but I didn’t want to be disturbed.
My mother had brain surgery…which made me take a strong look at my life…my family…our past and our potential future. Things went well, which I’ve decided is a good thing.
Below is a revision/rough draft from said free write:
You should be ashamed of yourself.
I could tell you the story about how I was too young
to see the broken woman looking at me
with my mother’s eyes. As she sent me into the store,
alone, to buy bread & milk.
I could tell you about how I laughed
because she didn’t send me with money, but food stamps…without explanation.
They were bright and resembled bills from a board game.
I laughed because I couldn’t understand why these adults would accept fake money,
letting me leave with a few items…they had to be stupid,
or at least that is what I told my brother.
My laughter and inexperience would ease your discomfort.
But I’ve spent too much time
drifting between truth and omission,
enabling others to find their own lies. Which is why
I’m going to tell you a different story. The one about
how when asked; ‘Where are you from?’
I’d answer with the geographic location because
poverty was my zip code.
My summers weren’t spent in a cottage by the ocean…
they were spent in front of a window fan…the only competing sounds were from the cars
that made only left turns down at the track.
And on really hot nights were weren’t allowed out after dark
because there would be drunks pissing in our side yard.
My parents had to sue our town to stop a corrupt politician
from breaking zoning codes. I went to bed hungry…
despite my father’s two jobs.
This isn’t a ‘bootstrap’ story…I didn’t go to the dentist
until I was an adult. But I got braces at 27…I don’t work in a factory,
but my brother does. I’m earning my B.S., but my sister has a GED.
This story isn’t for you; it’s for the children of alcoholics and teenaged mothers. Clichés
aren’t worthy of us. I’ve broken the cycle even with barriers to entry.
‘Passing’ isn’t enough…hunger isn’t something I can forget,
but it is something I will end.